My very first sex toy was gifted to me on my 16th birthday, courtesy of my group of (very ahead of the curve) girlfriends — made possible by the new Spencer's that had just opened up in our local mall. The great introductory kit for a couples' first strap-on experience, the Tantus Bend Over Beginner Harness Kit features a soft velvet harness that expands up to a 60 in. hip, with two smooth 100% Silicone dildos - the Tantus Silk Small, 4.5"(insertable length) x 0.8" diameter and the Tantus Silk Medium, 5.5"(insertable length) x 1" diameter.
My first tip is to make sure you buy some lube, I recommend this bottle Buy it with your sex toy, buy it in a store but whatever you do, buy it. It's so important to have it on hand as it makes anal and vaginal play a lot smoother and when using strap-on's this is essential, especially if you're a beginner.
SheVibe carries a Sinclair Institute set and individual ones from Fuze and Come As You Are has a full set of individual dilator dildos However, Eve's Dildo Fun Pak a number of the dildos below come in small sizes with no texture and a uniform width (or at most, slightly tapered at the tip).
We tried the strap on in a number of different positions and actually found that the shorter length didn't work for us in some positions, maybe that is because it is new to us and we need more practice or it might just be that as this is a smaller beginners dildo it isn't big enough for every position, the harness was perfect in use, it held everything where it should be and was very comfortable to wear, as it is open at the bottom my partner was able to manipulate me whist I was wearing it without any problems.
Many suction cup dildos come in different styles, including black dildos, porn star dildos, and even ejaculating dildos Most of these dildos also have a realistic cock design to intensify your sexual experience, and some even come with extra features like this Real Feel Deluxe Vibrating Suction Cup Dildo You'll still get the naughty fun that dildos offer, but you'll get even more versatility with a suction cup dildo.
The most important thing about bringing a toy into the bedroom is that it's going to enhance the sex you're already having, rather than pushing you into sexual gymnastics that you're not comfortable with. A lot of sex toys are made out of porous materials that can release chemical compounds called pthalates.
I also highly suggest masturbating with the strap-on on. It can be really hot to masturbate your dildo, or play with it while touching other parts of your body, and it definitely helps in developing a connection to it. Finally, the -ring harness system is compatible with other strap-on dildos up to 1.25”.
This vibrating strap-on harness kit is the perfect selection for beginners looking to experiment with a strap-on dildo. They're among the most affordable toys out there too, so you won't have to spend a small fortune for that first experience. In fact, most times that I've had sex - visuals are almost completely left out the pleasure-invoking experience.